Strangling your husband is not an option

-- how to improve as a wife

Shed mommy-ness and go back to being purely a wife

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Elder Kirkham "your name is safe in our home" and marriage 

Give him time alone In his man cave, on outings and bike rides, free Mikey time. 

Guys need guy- friends and girls need girl-friends

Take the time to look good. Dress like you're trying to get him to ask you out. He doesn't want to come home to a slug

Talk. Play. Flirt. Date. Compliment. 

Have Faith in Mike. Believe in him and trust that he will make good choices. 

I worry too much. Gain a testimony of our Marriage. Have complete trust in him, me, and us. 

"Brethren, marry someone who is your better in some respects and, sisters, do likewise, so that your eternal partnership is one of compensating competencies. "NA Maxwell

'It's your responsibility, and I have faith and confidence in you that you'll do what's right.' Give him back his agency. 

If you will treat your husband as if he possesses a certain attribute, over time he will begin to act as if he possesses that attribute. Eventually, that will become who he is. P 123

“If you treat an individual as he is, he will remain how he is. But if you treat him as if he were what he ought to be and could be, he will become what he ought to be and could be.” 

― Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Quickly replace negative thoughts in your head with three positive ones

During this season in my life I'm enjoying my kids. but am I enjoying Mike?

Have Faith in him. Tell him you have faith in him. 

Hold on to every hope that your marriage will develop into an excellent one. 

Charity belongs more in marriage than anywhere else

Pray: help me to see all that is good about him

Our marriage is going to get the highest priority of my time, money, and energy

You're still courting him and getting him to fall in love with you all the time. Dazzle him!

The couple that plays together stays together. 

Husbands benefit from having a very fun wife. Mysterious. Unpredictable. Spontaneous. 

He wants a wife he can brag about.